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Wednesday, January 12, 2011

let's get it started...

So, I spent some time laying out my resolutions for the month of January.  Today, I bought my graph paper (I love buying school supplies) and laid out my first set of resolutions.  Here's how it stacks up:
  • lights out at 10:30
  • exercise for at least 30 minutes
  • eat healthfully
  • eat three meals
  • drink 64 oz of water
  • spend 10 minutes tidying up before bed
  • tackle a nagging task
  • act energetic
The 10-minute clean-up has been easy to complete.  Double check for yesterday and today.  I attempted to act more energetic both days; whether or not I was successful is an entirely different matter. I'll attempt to crank it back up tomorrow.  I am also going to make a concentrated effort to get to sleep early tonight.  Lately it seems as though I am exhausted by 9:00...which would explain the dark circles under my eyes.


Exercise...yikes.  I have only 19 days left to get 12 gym visits in.  This tends to get away from me every month.  I hate going to the gym on Monday mornings and then I usually have a meeting on Tuesday.  That just sets me up for a bad week.  I think I am going to have to bite the bullet and make Monday happen.  I am also going to have to spend time at the beginning of each month highlighting available gym mornings in my resolution chart.

My eating habits are a subject for an entry of their own.  More to come on that this week.

Finally, we get to "Tackle a Nagging Task."  I wasn't joking about the fact that my first nagging task was to create the list...something I haven't gotten to yet.  However, I feel as though I have spent the last two days tackling a big one.  While it isn't yet down for the count, it is on the ropes.

I manage a small non-profit organization and have been struggling with some personnel issues lately.  It has been amazing to me how quickly an upbeat and productive day can turn into a day of ineffectiveness because of someone else's issues.  To back up, I took a lot of time off in December (vacation time...use it or lose it), including an entire week between Christmas and New Year's.  I came back in January but was not in the office much due to the death of my husband's amazing Grandmother.

When I finally came back to work this week, prepared for my first full week of work since mid-November, I was ready to roll...to make things happen.  Within three hours, I had to deal with an issue between two employees.  It was as though my energy balloon had been completely deflated (phhhhhhhht).  In the past, I would have listened, given them both advice for how to deal with one another, and resolved to take care of the issue once and for all...as soon I got to a place where I was caught up enough to deal with their seemingly never-ending childish squabbles (I mean, really...am I actually the principal of an all-girls middle school?).

This week was different.  Happy Mommy Boss Lady looked it square in the face.  I am not going to tolerate it any more, and told them so...in no uncertain terms.  Formal warnings and everything.  And, most importantly, I did it with a smile on my face.

First nagging task completed.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

the story continues...

So...it's almost a year later and not much has changed.  While I have been trying to find the time to get happy, another big chunk of my life has flown by.  I've spent the last year finding excuses instead of happiness.

The time has come to make a change.